Dealing with the Distractions of a Home Office

As a problogger, I work from home. I have a home office and that’s where I spend my time working. This, of course, means I am subject to the many distractions of home: kids, wife, phone, doorbell, refrigerator. Yep, all of it! What to do?

The biggest single problem with working from home is the amount of potential distraction. When you are in an outside office, it is usually quieter. Plus, the mindset is different because you’re there to work. When you go back home, then the simple transition from office to home means you change into another mental “mode”. Work is over. Time to chill out.

A home office means that you almost live IN your office. Even when you are having dinner or spending time with the kids, work is not far from your mind because, just down the hall, there your computer sits, beckoning you to check your email or check Twitter.

I deal with all this stuff. I have a permanent baby gate in my office door to keep my daughter from meandering into my office. It keeps her out, but I can still hear everything she does. My wife, when she needs something, will just come interrupt me in the office to ask questions. When the home phone rings, I hear it. When the doorbell rings, the dog starts barking and it interrupts my thought process. In the evening, I have to try really hard not to think about work. After all, the office is right down the hall.

How do you deal with it?

Here are my ideas, but I would love for my readers to share their own ideas, too.

  1. Close the office door and play music. It helps to drown out the noise of kids and family.
  2. Put the baby into daycare. My wife and I just started Elyana in a daycare center part-time. It is nice to have some peace and quiet and my wife appreciates the time to herself. Ely is also getting some time with other kids, which we think is important.
  3. Ask family to stay out. I have asked my wife to err on the side of not coming into my office and to try to act as if I am gone between work hours. Doesn’t always happen, but we try. :)

That’s about it. If you deal with the same issue, how do you deal with it? I’d love to know.

Eventually, we will move into a larger house which has a separated workspace for my office. For now, I have a back bedroom set up as my office. It works, however it isn’t set aside. Ideally, I’d have a second floor office or a separate structure.

Until then, I have to make do. It is nice working from home. I like being able to see the family in the middle of the day. I like not having to pay rent for an office. I like being able to sit there in my underwear and not care about what I look like. But, with these things come trade-offs.

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  • http://blog.sd360.com/ Brent

    Working from a home office has both it’s benefits and it’s drawbacks and it is not cut out for everyone. I have worked from a home office for over 10 years and I would not have it any other way.

    I like because I can go play with my kids a few times a the day in between my work. Even before I had kids I worked from a home office because it was cheap, easy and efficient. I don’t pay additional rent, I don’t waste an hour a day driving and parking and I could work when I wanted too. It’s amazing how much time travel to and from work can suck out of your day.

    Some tricks that I have found that work are a lock on your office door and teaching your kids that when the door is locked that I am busy working. Plus working late after the kids/wife go to bed works well for me too.

    I just gave a quick tour of my office last week on my blog.
    http://blog.sd360.com/2009/03/a-brief-tour-of-my-home-office/

    David, Let’s see what your office looks like.

  • http://blog.sd360.com Brent

    Working from a home office has both it’s benefits and it’s drawbacks and it is not cut out for everyone. I have worked from a home office for over 10 years and I would not have it any other way.

    I like because I can go play with my kids a few times a the day in between my work. Even before I had kids I worked from a home office because it was cheap, easy and efficient. I don’t pay additional rent, I don’t waste an hour a day driving and parking and I could work when I wanted too. It’s amazing how much time travel to and from work can suck out of your day.

    Some tricks that I have found that work are a lock on your office door and teaching your kids that when the door is locked that I am busy working. Plus working late after the kids/wife go to bed works well for me too.

    I just gave a quick tour of my office last week on my blog.
    http://blog.sd360.com/2009/03/a-brief-tour-of-my-home-office/

    David, Let’s see what your office looks like.

  • http://www.mikeslife.org Mike CJ

    I guess I’m lucky as I have both. I also have an office in town, and fortunately don’t have to pay rent as we own the building. I use the home office most of the time, as I prefer to be here, but use the one in town when I have to meet people or when the kids are on school holidays! The big drawback with the home office is the trick of “Just going to check my email” and being gone for 3 hours, which can really piss off the family.
    In the medium term I plan to build a separate office at the bottom of our land, which should achieve the best compromise.

  • http://www.mikeslife.org Mike CJ

    I guess I’m lucky as I have both. I also have an office in town, and fortunately don’t have to pay rent as we own the building. I use the home office most of the time, as I prefer to be here, but use the one in town when I have to meet people or when the kids are on school holidays! The big drawback with the home office is the trick of “Just going to check my email” and being gone for 3 hours, which can really piss off the family.
    In the medium term I plan to build a separate office at the bottom of our land, which should achieve the best compromise.

  • http://www.fakemoneyblog.com/ Jake Stone

    I’m really poor in time management so I prefer to have an office in the neighbourhood. I just rent a single unit and get my ass there. I get more done in one hour there than what I get done in four back at home. Naturally family complains… why I must go to the next door? Isn’t that just waste of money to rent a studio for doing sales work?

  • http://www.fakemoneyblog.com Jake Stone

    I’m really poor in time management so I prefer to have an office in the neighbourhood. I just rent a single unit and get my ass there. I get more done in one hour there than what I get done in four back at home. Naturally family complains… why I must go to the next door? Isn’t that just waste of money to rent a studio for doing sales work?

  • http://www.mattybyloos.com/ Matty Byloos

    This is a tough thing to deal with. As a painter, I have to think about how much work I’d get done having a full time job and a painting studio separate from my living area, versus a live-work situation. Ultimately, I have opted to have a studio outside the home — even though I have to spend some travel time, and have to deliberately go somewhere to work, once I get into the space, I only think about work and have no distractions.

  • http://www.mattybyloos.com Matty Byloos

    This is a tough thing to deal with. As a painter, I have to think about how much work I’d get done having a full time job and a painting studio separate from my living area, versus a live-work situation. Ultimately, I have opted to have a studio outside the home — even though I have to spend some travel time, and have to deliberately go somewhere to work, once I get into the space, I only think about work and have no distractions.

  • http://www.netspray.com/ Greg

    Like Jake above I am typically terrible with time management. I always end up doing something else instead of what I intended to do.

    Shutting the door was always the best option for me. My family knew I was working and wouldn’t bother me as much.

  • http://www.netspray.com Greg

    Like Jake above I am typically terrible with time management. I always end up doing something else instead of what I intended to do.

    Shutting the door was always the best option for me. My family knew I was working and wouldn’t bother me as much.

  • http://www.millionairemamas.info Malaika Morris

    As a single mom working from home, I had to put my active 2 year old in daycare part-time (like you said in #2). I couldn’t get much done with him here because there’s no one else to watch him.

    People that don’t work from home couldn’t understand why I had him in daycare. But, I have to say the cost of part-time care is minor compared to the cost of having him here. I would be losing a lot more money because I couldn’t get any work done.

  • http://www.millionairemamas.info/ Malaika Morris

    As a single mom working from home, I had to put my active 2 year old in daycare part-time (like you said in #2). I couldn’t get much done with him here because there’s no one else to watch him.

    People that don’t work from home couldn’t understand why I had him in daycare. But, I have to say the cost of part-time care is minor compared to the cost of having him here. I would be losing a lot more money because I couldn’t get any work done.

  • http://wordful.com/ Charles Bohannan

    I had a home office for about 18-19 months and in the end I didn’t really like it. Like you, I had too many distractions and because I could work in my underwear, I did, and over time that eroded my sense of professionalism.

    My wife commented that I would often carry my work frustration into the home, which was true.

    With children, there is no such thing as working and caring for them at the same time. Nothing gets done. A couple of times my youngest son came in when I had stepped away for a minute and sabotaged a few important papers.

    Last year I went out and rented an office and I love it. It’s worth every penny. I blogged about it here:

    http://wordful.com/7-reasons-to-ditch-your-home-office/

  • http://wordful.com Charles Bohannan

    I had a home office for about 18-19 months and in the end I didn’t really like it. Like you, I had too many distractions and because I could work in my underwear, I did, and over time that eroded my sense of professionalism.

    My wife commented that I would often carry my work frustration into the home, which was true.

    With children, there is no such thing as working and caring for them at the same time. Nothing gets done. A couple of times my youngest son came in when I had stepped away for a minute and sabotaged a few important papers.

    Last year I went out and rented an office and I love it. It’s worth every penny. I blogged about it here:

    http://wordful.com/7-reasons-to-ditch-your-home-office/

  • http://lorihenry.ca/ Lori

    I have been freelancing full time from home for some time now. I live alone in a quiet building, though, so it’s a lot easier to concentrate! No kids, pets or family members interrupting me… :)

  • http://lorihenry.ca Lori

    I have been freelancing full time from home for some time now. I live alone in a quiet building, though, so it’s a lot easier to concentrate! No kids, pets or family members interrupting me… :)

  • http://TaipeiDreams.com/ Dave

    Haiz, the distractions of a home office..

    Every day, my wife & I get out of our little room @ my parent’s place. We lug our laptops & stuff, to the public library for work.

    Viola, more distractions! ;-P

  • http://TaipeiDreams.com Dave

    Haiz, the distractions of a home office..

    Every day, my wife & I get out of our little room @ my parent’s place. We lug our laptops & stuff, to the public library for work.

    Viola, more distractions! ;-P

  • http://zebida.com/main/ Hesham

    I feel that I live IN my Laptop :) as it’s my office !

    I still have a full job, I usually blog at home after office day! and I can say it’s crazy thing to do, I have to deal with some family issues!!

  • http://zebida.com/main/ Hesham

    I feel that I live IN my Laptop :) as it’s my office !

    I still have a full job, I usually blog at home after office day! and I can say it’s crazy thing to do, I have to deal with some family issues!!

  • http://myonehundredthings.com/about Christian

    I have a friend who had an office built separate from her house. She loves it! I also work full time from home and can testify to the benefit of daycare. I like the part time solution you mention. 3-4 hours a day, then 5-6 hours at night when the kids are in bed. Golden.

  • http://myonehundredthings.com/about Christian

    I have a friend who had an office built separate from her house. She loves it! I also work full time from home and can testify to the benefit of daycare. I like the part time solution you mention. 3-4 hours a day, then 5-6 hours at night when the kids are in bed. Golden.

  • http://www.rodentproofaz.com/ Adam | Rodent Control Speciali

    I run my own business and do some work from home, but I can’t imagine full time. I have a pretty small space, so no separate office. All the distractions — makes it really tough to focus sometimes.

  • http://www.rodentproofaz.com/ Adam | Rodent Control Specialist

    I run my own business and do some work from home, but I can’t imagine full time. I have a pretty small space, so no separate office. All the distractions — makes it really tough to focus sometimes.

  • http://makemoneywithtaxliens.yolasite.com/ Josh H

    Working from home is okay if you don’t go to a regular job for 8 hours first – then come home and do 8 more hours at home working.

    This is what I do. I can not quit my regular job until my online business starts to make money – so I am exausted.

  • http://makemoneywithtaxliens.yolasite.com Josh H

    Working from home is okay if you don’t go to a regular job for 8 hours first – then come home and do 8 more hours at home working.

    This is what I do. I can not quit my regular job until my online business starts to make money – so I am exausted.

  • http://www.mortgagemodification411.com/ Heather Mortgage Modification

    I have such a hard time with my 1 year old here while I am working on the computer. My husband works, which leaves me at home with the baby. She is almost two and getting better at giving me some time to work but I don't want to keep her in front of the TV for a while. Does anyone have any suggestions. Naptime gives me about 2 hours of solid work but that is my really only good stretch of time.

  • http://www.mortgagemodification411.com/ Heather Mortgage Modification

    I have such a hard time with my 1 year old here while I am working on the computer. My husband works, which leaves me at home with the baby. She is almost two and getting better at giving me some time to work but I don't want to keep her in front of the TV for a while. Does anyone have any suggestions. Naptime gives me about 2 hours of solid work but that is my really only good stretch of time.