Quit Talking to Yourself

This is a guest post submitted by Nathan Hangen, of the Webrepreneur Blog. In this post, he gives some good lessons about branding and connecting with your blog’s audience.

One of my favorite parts about making a living on the internet is being part of a community that understands itself and the members within it. David doesn’t have to explain his income strategies to us because we are all aware of Internet Marketing strategies and we’ve made an effort to become a part of that paradigm.

One of the benefits of being part of a community like this is that you get to meet a variety of people (both novices and veterans) which interact like they’ve known each other for years. Of course, every once in a while you will meet the negative people that love to flame other bloggers, but for the most part the blogging community is both accepting and easily approachable.

When I first got started, I made an effort to reach out to a lot of experienced bloggers so that I could both get noticed and learn anything they were willing to share. Although some ignored my request, many were more than happy to help. Now that I’ve been in this business for a while, I’ve been in a position where people ask me for help. This is, by far, my favorite part about being in this business. I just love to share what I’ve learned and I really enjoy helping others turn dreams into realities.

Becoming an Expert

However, there is a problem that I see with most new bloggers that keeps them from living up to their potential. A lot of new bloggers try to create an image that doesn’t match their experience level. In some cases, you’ll find new bloggers teaching people how to make money online, even though they’ve never done it themselves. Other times, you will find bloggers trying to become an expert in their niche without understanding the niche or its audience.

Now, there is nothing wrong with becoming an expert in your niche, but you have to position yourself as such outside of your blog. What I mean is that you can’t just write a post that claims you are an expert, you have to have some kind of social proof.

Some ways that you could do this are:

  • Have someone interview and post it on their blog.
  • Create a product of your own and sell it or give it away.
  • Guest post for someone else’s blog.
  • Use social media/networking to blast your message over time.
  • Use article directories to publish some of your better articles and link them to your blog.
  • Display credentials on your blog.

Understanding Your Audience

Now, even with social proof you might not be positioned where you want to be, which leads me to the primary reason I am writing this post. I believe that a lot of bloggers, especially new bloggers, make the mistake of talking to themselves rather than to their audience. To help you understand what I’m coming from, let me give you an example of what I mean.

Let’s say that Brad is a new blogger that decided to start a blog about social media. Brad loves social media and spends a lot of time using MySpace, YouTube, Facebook, and Twitter to market his brand. He knows how he uses them well, but he really doesn’t understand how his potential readers do. So in an effort to connect with his audience, he starts to talk about what he knows best, from his perspective. Even worse, he claims to understand where his readers are coming from, but makes incorrect or inaccurate assumptions about the way that they use social media.

His readers find his blog, and they see that it is written in a context that they don’t understand. Brad failed to bridge the gap between his understanding and theirs. Rather than helping them figure it out, he has alienated them and lost their interest. He doesn’t  understand them, and they don’t understand him. It is a common problem that can easily be fixed, but too many people fail to grasp this concept and never really figure it out.

Now, for the purpose of clarity, I have given you a rather extreme example, but the truth is that this happens more than you might realize. In less obvious examples, the blogger simply never connects with his audience and fails to gain traction in the blogosphere. In other cases, the blogger hasn’t properly identified his niche so he posts randomly about some of his favorite subjects. Well that is great, but it really doesn’t create a sufficient enough experience to keep your readers coming back.

The way to avoid all of this, is to properly understand both your potential niche and your target audience and make sure that you find a way to bridge the gap between your perspective and theirs. Build every post with your brand in mind. Don’t talk to yourself, but talk to your reader about the feelings and experiences that they have. Speak from your audience’s level and talk in a context that is easy to understand. They’ll see that you are not speaking from a pulpit, but that you “get them.”

If you are a pro in your niche, then use social proof to brand yourself as such and then find a way to turn your readers into pros too. Don’t expect them to understand where you are coming from if they haven’t experienced your insights yet. Just like it took you time to get there, you’ve got to take time to get them there with you. Once you’ve given them that “aha!” moment, then you can start getting into more advanced topics, but in the beginning just keep it simple.

Although this is more of a marketing perspective than anything, part of becoming a successful blogger is learning how to properly market your brand. As a webrepreneur, you get to do everything on your own, but unfortunately you have to learn every part of the business.

So take the time to think about your approach before you start blogging. Make sure that you know the audience you are appealing to and find a way to catch their eye. Although sharing your personal insights is fantastic, don’t bombard your readers with information about you. Teach them how to gain your insight by taking them down a path that is interesting and makes sense to them. Otherwise, you will just lose them from the jump, and that makes building a popular blog very difficult.

Nathan Hangen is an internet marketer, author, and competitive triathlete. He is currently deployed to Afghanistan and spends his free time developing his personal brand and social network. You can learn more about him and read similar content at his website, The Webrepreneur Blog.

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  • http://www.acreageanywhere.com/lots_and_acreage/ Johnny ‘Acreage’ Benoit

    I agree with a lot of what you’re saying, especially about trying to come off as an expert right off the bat. I think the blog journey, both for writer(s) and readers, is a fun one to go one, and maybe because you get to the learning process unfold.

  • http://www.acreageanywhere.com/lots_and_acreage/ Johnny ‘Acreage’ Benoit

    I agree with a lot of what you’re saying, especially about trying to come off as an expert right off the bat. I think the blog journey, both for writer(s) and readers, is a fun one to go one, and maybe because you get to the learning process unfold.

  • http://www.nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    David, thanks for the opportunity.

    @Johnny, one of my favorite things about blogging is watching a community prop up other bloggers. In my opinion, the community is just as responsible for the blogger’s popularity as the author is. It is a great ride for everyone involved.

  • http://www.nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    David, thanks for the opportunity.

    @Johnny, one of my favorite things about blogging is watching a community prop up other bloggers. In my opinion, the community is just as responsible for the blogger’s popularity as the author is. It is a great ride for everyone involved.

  • http://www.newyorkparkingticket.com/ lawrence berezin

    Nathan,

    First and foremost, be safe. There’s a line in “A Few Good Men” that to this day rolls around in my brain, Col. Jessep, “You don’t want the truth because deep down in places you don’t talk about at parties, you want me on that wall, you need me on that wall….” There are too many walls for our young men and women to guard. I guess it’s for another post.

    Great post. The section about understanding your audience really resonated with me. I’m a rookie blogger. I was asked to join a business involving NYC parking tickets. I drew the short straw, so I became the blogger. Prior to joining this business, I studied for a year about blogging. Read books, read experienced blogger blogs, learned how to write conversationally, rather than as a lawyer; with the goal to publish a blog about one of my passions.

    Instead, I blog about parking tickets. But, I’ve become passionate about parking tickets. There’s so much to talk about. My problem, and where I need help is that I understand what my audience wants to read about. But, I can’t seem to earn their participation in the conversation. Any advice?

  • http://www.newyorkparkingticket.com lawrence berezin

    Nathan,

    First and foremost, be safe. There’s a line in “A Few Good Men” that to this day rolls around in my brain, Col. Jessep, “You don’t want the truth because deep down in places you don’t talk about at parties, you want me on that wall, you need me on that wall….” There are too many walls for our young men and women to guard. I guess it’s for another post.

    Great post. The section about understanding your audience really resonated with me. I’m a rookie blogger. I was asked to join a business involving NYC parking tickets. I drew the short straw, so I became the blogger. Prior to joining this business, I studied for a year about blogging. Read books, read experienced blogger blogs, learned how to write conversationally, rather than as a lawyer; with the goal to publish a blog about one of my passions.

    Instead, I blog about parking tickets. But, I’ve become passionate about parking tickets. There’s so much to talk about. My problem, and where I need help is that I understand what my audience wants to read about. But, I can’t seem to earn their participation in the conversation. Any advice?

  • http://www.nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Thanks Lawrence, I truly appreciate the thoughts. With good fortune, I’ll be home in about 60 days or so.

    I am glad you enjoyed the post. I’ve gotta be honest, it took me a long time to understand how to connect with an audience. It is easy to blog from your head, but it really doesn’t get you anywhere.

    One of the BEST ways I’ve found to test what my audience wants is to use http://surveymonkey.com and ask them. It really works!

    If nothing else, ask for comments at the end of your posts and try to encourage interaction or emails. Good Luck!

  • http://www.nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Thanks Lawrence, I truly appreciate the thoughts. With good fortune, I’ll be home in about 60 days or so.

    I am glad you enjoyed the post. I’ve gotta be honest, it took me a long time to understand how to connect with an audience. It is easy to blog from your head, but it really doesn’t get you anywhere.

    One of the BEST ways I’ve found to test what my audience wants is to use http://surveymonkey.com and ask them. It really works!

    If nothing else, ask for comments at the end of your posts and try to encourage interaction or emails. Good Luck!

  • http://www.newyorkparkingticket.com/ lawrence berezin

    Nathan,

    You are absolutely right. Between your post and your comment, you gave me some great insights, which I am going to act on.

    Can’t wait to welcome you home.

  • http://www.newyorkparkingticket.com lawrence berezin

    Nathan,

    You are absolutely right. Between your post and your comment, you gave me some great insights, which I am going to act on.

    Can’t wait to welcome you home.

  • http://missoulagazette.com/ Missoula Gazette

    Learning by writing about something leaves a lot to be desired at the beginning. It is how almost everyone in the blogging community got started.

    Good Article,
    Rick

  • http://missoulagazette.com/ Missoula Gazette

    Learning by writing about something leaves a lot to be desired at the beginning. It is how almost everyone in the blogging community got started.

    Good Article,
    Rick

  • http://annemoss.com/ annemoss

    As a target market specialist, I find this to be so true.

    ‘I believe that a lot of bloggers, especially new bloggers, make the mistake of talking to themselves rather than to their audience.’

    People are interested in what you can do for them. Position it to an audience based on what it is you can resolve for them. Good article, Nathan.

  • http://annemoss.com annemoss

    As a target market specialist, I find this to be so true.

    ‘I believe that a lot of bloggers, especially new bloggers, make the mistake of talking to themselves rather than to their audience.’

    People are interested in what you can do for them. Position it to an audience based on what it is you can resolve for them. Good article, Nathan.

  • http://www.rodentproofaz.com/ Adam | Rodent Control Speciali

    It’s so important to tailor you blog posts, in fact all of your content, to the key points you want to express about your brand.

    And I don’t think it can be emphasized enough the weight speaking directly to your audience carries. This was literally the first thing I learned about blogging, or writing anything for that matter. Definitely among the most valuable points to keep in check.

  • http://www.rodentproofaz.com/ Adam | Rodent Control Specialist

    It’s so important to tailor you blog posts, in fact all of your content, to the key points you want to express about your brand.

    And I don’t think it can be emphasized enough the weight speaking directly to your audience carries. This was literally the first thing I learned about blogging, or writing anything for that matter. Definitely among the most valuable points to keep in check.

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